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Going Home Again

The reason this entry is a day late is that I went home to Victoria, B.C., (where I grew up) to visit my parents and also to Vancouver for The League of Canadian Poet's (W)rites of Spring fundraising reading. Jim and I left Thursday afternoon, stayed in Victoria till Sunday morning, then went to Vancouver, stayed overnight there with friends and came home Monday.

I don't go to Victoria very often, even though my parents still live there, but every time I do I get overwhelmed by reminders of my past. Almost every place I see there brings back memories of various events in my life, what I used to do and where I used to go. I lived in Victoria from shortly before my 10th birthday till I left for graduate school shortly before my 23rd. I've lived in Seattle now nearly ten years and before that we were here for nearly two years so soon I'll have lived in Seattle as long as I did in Victoria but I haven't got nearly the same kind of knowledge of the place or a sense of my history laid out here. Something to do with those formative years being spent in one geographic space and then moving away, only returning for brief visits. (We did live there for the summer of 1989, too, in my parents' house while Jim was looking for work--a period of waiting, not really living.)

It starts when I get on the ferry from Tsawwassen. The ferries have changed over the years, but that run first across the open part of the Strait of Georgia, then through the gorgeous Gulf Islands is so familiar to me I can envision nearly the whole 1.5-hour trip. I remember running around the ferry as a child. I remember making up biographies to tell to strangers to amuse myself during my frequent crossings as a university student vising friends going to UBC. I remember running into an older man I knew from church and necking on the upper deck with him and then later in his Jag (the smell of pipe tobacco and leather--mmm). I remember the relief of getting on the ferry after the 11-hour drive from Missoula when I was in graduate school there.

I always used to spend the entire ride outside looking at the view--islands so close you think it would be nothing to jump off the ship and swim ashore and so beautiful you're tempted to try just that--but now I usually spend the trip inside reading, glancing up often.

Then driving in from the ferry terminal at Swartz Bay it's all home ground. Driving down the Pat Bay Highway you can see the building up on the hill that used to house the alcohol treatment centre my dad and I used to work at, you go past the road to Island View Beach where I used to go to beach parties, past Elk Lake where Mom used to take me and my friends to swim, then past the house Christina lived in shortly after I first met her, then the part of the lake where a boyfriend and I used to skinny dip at night, then where I used to walk Christina's brother's dog the summer he spent travelling away from me (foolish me, I'm about to fall in love with Christina's brother in The Phonosnout), then the road to the house my parents built with the woods behind that were my spiritual home and then so familiar road into town from there, even though there has been a lot of development there downtown Victoria hasn't changed much, where I used to roam with the Mustard Seed (the Christian drop-in centre for wayward teens I volunteered in for several years) folk, looking for "our" kids. The least familiar area of town is past that, where my parents live now, but only blocks from where they live is Dallas Road and the breakwater where I used to walk with Randy (a later boyfriend), and Beacon Hill Park where I used to go on very early morning walks after staying up all night talking to friends. I remember standing on the bluff there above the beach looking toward the Olympic Mountains (which I can see a different side of from Seattle) with a friend, Harold, when an owl buzzed just over our heads. I recall looking down in that same place another time and seeing a barnacled, battered whale rounding the shoreline.

What surprises me most now is the beauty of Victoria's setting. I mostly took it for granted when I was growing up, but now each visit reminds me. There are lovely parts of Seattle, but not that conscious care not to spoil the beaches, to keep access to them public. The beaches, rocks, and woods of my home and native land.

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Another week of miscellaneous listening. Had another binge with Bloem de Ligny's zink (see my February 28 entry for a description of her music). One night Jim played a long series of discs from 1993--what a great year for music! The session included Jane Siberry's brilliant and moody When I Was A Boy. And then this weekend a series of tapes for road music, two of Veda Hille live, Susan James's Life Between Two Worlds, some Björk remixes.

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I read the second Owen Archer mystery by Candace Robb. I confess that my main interest in these are the details of the medieval York setting--I love that. These aren't changing my mind about mystery novels, but they're quick reads and there are things about the character interactions I like as well. I hate to be so wishy-washy about something that I'm actually continuing to read (I borrowed several more in the series from a friend) but this just isn't my genre.

I also read the second in The Black Jewels Trilogy, Heir to the Shadows by Anne Bishop. This is a dark fantasy (all kinds of vampyric creatures) which usually isn't my thing either but there are some wonderful things about this particular series, one of the main things is how the family who loves her deals with a terribly precocious child they know is far beyond them and will go farther. I love how their affection and care for her is so real. That's a rare thing in genre fiction--in any fiction. The books aren't so much about her, but how she affects the emotions of the ones around her who love her.

On the trip I read the third book, The Price of Blood and Honor, in Elizabeth Willey's ongoing (I think) series. I like the characters and the world, so I found this one interesting but not very plot-oriented--things just seemed to happen and not toward any particular purpose as though this is an in-between kind of book. A couple of times I really wanted to kick the characters to make them wake up and pay attention, and I don't remember feeling that way in the earlier books. Since it was the third I'd had some pre-conceptions that it might be the end of the series but it clearly isn't.

I also bailed on a book--Allan B. Coe's Children of Amarid--I just couldn't get interested in it, though I got nearly halfway through. I rarely quit reading something but I could tell I wasn't going to enjoy this. Though the story idea was interesting-ish (mages psychically linked to hawks) I'd seen the idea before, and the characters and presentation felt flat to me--and he didn't use the link much, at least as far as I got. There didn't seem to be much point to the device. And I wasn't particularly caught up in the characters or the danger threatening their society.

To make up for that disappointment I allowed myself to start a Sean Stewart novel (The Night Watch) I'd been saving for a rainy day.

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Not a good writing week. Had a fiction workshop on Tuesday where we talked about one of my old stories, but that's about it. Just seemed to be too busy.

I did have fun at the reading on Sunday night--it was the first time I'd read in Vancouver. The reading was too long at nearly three hours and with nine readers, four of whom read fifteen minutes to be able to donate Canada Council reading fees back to the League, and each of the rest supposedly for 10. My 15-minute time was right before the break, which was good. There was a large crowd, too, but the layout of the space was awkwardly angled--I was facing away from Jim and the friends who had come with me. The audience reaction felt mixed to me--I feel as though I might have been too dramatic for them, though I did get some positive feedback from individuals afterward. I had fun listening to the other readers, and was pleased to have participated. I hope The League of Canadian Poets made some money out of it over and above the reading fees.

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Retrospective: The Phonosnout

About the Phonosnout

Fall 1975

154. Take (one) fifty-four

[Quote from Nilsson's "Take 54" omitted that stopped suddenly mid-line.] Don't know why i can't finish this--yes i do it's got a dirty word in it and Tom wouldn't like that. Tough luck, Tom.1 [Quote from Nilsson's "Take 54" omitted, this part continuing with the word "balls" in it.]

155. Tammy say something

If you were informed that Dührer and Leonardo had similarities you were informed correctly--but!--they forgot to include me in that comparison--therefore I find it inconclusive.2

156. Tammy has said something


157. On being known as Phono

It's f'rout being known as Phono. Except there aren't too many people who know me as such. (Doesn't that sound Educated and Essay-ish.) Yes, indeed! Laura, Mr. Munch and maybe one or two others know me as Phono. I wonder why i like it. I guess 'cause it's Different and Individualized. Neat, huh? ("Why why why"--Quality Questions, of course. Yay!)

158. Phono-security blanket

My Phono has been returned to me! Mr. Munch had Phono for almost a week, and I was starting to go through withdrawal and that's a drag. Anyhow, i'm safe now, i've got my Phono-security blanket back. C'mon world, you can throw anything at me now, i can take it now that i've got Phono back. I think i've become addicted to Phono, oh dear. I guess no one will be able to tell as long as i've got it with me.

159. Whether weather

Rain, thunder, lightning and hail, what wonderful whether we're having. I wonder whether weather is really such an emotional force as some people say it is. I think so, but weather can't always change my mood. Bad weather is depressing; sunshine can lighten a mood, but possibly not to the extent people say. Today's is news, and i haven't heard the news today. [Back to chapter 92's quote from Simon and Garfunkle's "The Only Living Boy in New York" repeated and omitted again.]

160. Lights out

Lights are out (oh boy!) and the blinds are down (neat!) but it's not dark (rats!) Daylight is sneaking in through the blinds aided by the projector throwing light onto a screen, letting us see words. Words have decided to arrange themselves into poetry. (Well, they did have a little help from poets, i suppose.)

161. Fascinating day

Fascinating day, like wow & neato. F'rout! Rain then sun then rain [quote omitted--from Donovan, I think]. It's beautiful, even the cloudy rainy parts. The rain feels so icy, stabbing, on the skin. The rain and wind make me feel alive (i am, i know i am, i think i am). [More lines from that Donovan song omitted].

162. Wednesday Night (Saturday)

[Quote from Elton John's "Wednesday night" song deleted.] Problems--it's Saturday night, the eighth of November, i'm not a guy. There rest is true, though, i wish it wasn't, and i'm sure my eyes can't deny that i wish i were somewhere else tonight. Anywhere. I feel like hiding somewhere but there's no place to go. I wish i could tell them how i feel, but they'd never understand, they never do. Just think they do. Rats! They just think i'm in a bad (bitchy) mood. They're probably right. [Quote omitted from Simon and Garfunkle's "Only Living Boy in New York" again.]

163. Phono-growl

Don't talk to me, you fool! Don't you know i'm not here! Just leave me alone!! Get lost! Growly, growly me! Maybe it would be best if i left but i can't. I wish i wish i could, i want to so badly. I wish i were anywhere other than here. [Another quote from Elton John's "Wednesday night" song deleted.]

164. Going home

Back at school, about 15 minutes to go. (Let me out). Waiting, waiting waiting all day (going home, going home, going home, gonna make it, going home, going home, going home if it takes me the rest of my life).3


1. I guess I should say something about Tom because I haven't said much in here, even in my previous entry where I first mentioned him. Tom was the most rigidly fundamentalist of all the Christian boyfriends I had. He was cute, though, but it couldn't last--I was way too wild for him, which was fun for a while, but not for long. We had little in common. He sang "Amen" tunelessly with all his heart, which is anyone who has read my music sections knows, that's not something that's going to win my heart. He also was in third-year geography (that's junior-level undergrad to you Yanks) but couldn't pass first-year (freshman) English composition, even with me helping him. As I said, it couldn't last.

2. I recall Tammy was an impressive artist--not just the usual highschool stuff. I wonder what happened to her?

3. Echoes here of a Christian song about going to heaven.

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